Finding My Voice as a Domestic Worker and Building Confidence Through Community By Florence

For a long time, I struggled to find my voice. Like many domestic workers, I spent most of my time focusing on my responsibilities, working hard, doing my best, and trying not to cause problems. I believed that if I stayed quiet, worked diligently, and always said yes, everything would be fine. But inside, I was carrying many feelings I did not know how to express.

When I first joined The Voice of Domestic Workers, I did not realize how much it would change my life. At the beginning, I simply wanted to learn and improve myself. One of the first things it helped me with was improving my grammar and communication. Speaking and expressing myself in English was not always easy, and sometimes I felt embarrassed or unsure. But through learning and practicing, I slowly gained confidence. Every small improvement made me feel stronger and more capable.

More than anything, though, I found something I never expected, I found a family.

Being part of the Voice of Domestic Workers showed me that I was not alone. For the first time, I was surrounded by people who truly understood my experiences and the challenges that come with working far from home. They listened to my story without judgment and supported me when I needed encouragement. In that space, I felt safe enough to open up and share things that had been hurting me for a long time.

Before joining, I did not really understand the power of freedom of speech. I had always kept my thoughts and feelings to myself, especially when something was wrong at work. I believed that speaking up could cause problems. I worried that I might lose my job, damage relationships, or disappoint people around me. Fear made me stay silent.

Because of that fear, I often said yes to everything, even when I was uncomfortable or exhausted. I did not know how to say no. People sometimes took advantage of my kindness and politeness, and I allowed it because I believed that was the only way to keep peace. I used to call myself “Carol Yes,” because no matter what was asked of me, I would agree.

Over time, this made me feel very small. I began to doubt myself and my worth. I felt low and uncertain about many things in my life.

But things began to change when I became more involved with the Voice of Domestic Workers. Through workshops, conversations, and the support of other members, I started learning about my rights and the importance of speaking up. I discovered that my voice mattered. I realized that being kind does not mean accepting unfair treatment. Slowly, I began to build the courage to express myself and share my experiences.

The journey was not instant. It took time, patience, and encouragement from the people around me. But little by little, I began to feel stronger. I started speaking more confidently, sharing my thoughts, and supporting other domestic workers who were going through similar struggles.

Today, I feel a completely different kind of energy within me. I am no longer afraid to speak. I am no longer silent about the things that matter. Instead, I use my voice to connect with other domestic workers, to listen to their stories, and to remind them that they are not alone.

One of the most beautiful things I have gained from this journey is the sense of togetherness within our community. Among domestic workers in the Voice, we have built something truly special. We support each other, respect each other, and care for one another like family. We share our struggles, celebrate our achievements, and encourage each other to keep growing.

For many of us who left our homes to work abroad, finding a community like this is incredibly meaningful. It reminds us that even when we are far from our families, we can still build connections that bring comfort, strength, and belonging.

I am deeply grateful to the Voice of Domestic Workers for helping people like me, people who once felt invisible, uncertain, and unheard. Through their guidance and support, I have grown in ways I never imagined. I have improved my communication, gained confidence, and learned to stand up for myself. Most importantly, I have discovered my voice. Today, I feel proud to say that I have become someone who can speak not only for myself but also for others who may still be afraid to share their stories. I want to be a voice for those who feel voiceless, just as others once helped me find my own.

From feeling like I had nothing to say, I have grown into someone who believes in the power of speaking out, learning, and supporting others. This journey has changed my life, and I am truly thankful for the opportunity to keep learning, growing, and standing together with a community that believes in dignity, respect, and empowerment for domestic workers everywhere.

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