In the lively streets and peaceful neighbourhoods across the United Kingdom, many migrant domestic workers work hard every day, often out of sight and unnoticed by the public eye. Behind closed doors, they face sacrifices and struggles that are largely invisible to the society they serve. The challenges faced by migrant domestic workers are exacerbated by a system that offers little solace. Unable to renew their visas, many find themselves caught in the National Referral Mechanism, a bureaucratic web that denies them the simple luxury of returning home, even in times of dire need.
Analee Lazarito, an active member of The Voice of Domestic Workers shared her heart-rending letter to her loved one.
It's hard to put into words the myriad of emotions that surge within me as I sit here, far away from you. There's a deep pain in my heart, a relentless yearning for the life we once shared, and the choices that led us down this divergent path. If only we hadn't separated, if only our circumstances life would have been different and colourful and filled with happiness perhaps I wouldn't find myself so far away from home working in a foreign land. I often think about how things could have been. If we had stayed together, I would have been your unwavering support, your pillar of strength.
I would have cherished every special occasion such as birthdays, anniversaries, and the ordinary days that became extraordinary simply because we were together. More than anything, I would have been there for you when illness struck, nursing you back to health, and soothing away your pain, not only you alone. Also, with our sons and daughters, I wish I could cook their favourite food too.
But life had other plans, and it led me down a path I never imagined. The abuse and mistreatment I faced from my employment abroad were beyond anything I could have anticipated. It left me with no choice but to run away, to protect myself from further harm.
But escaping has led me to another imprisonment in a system where there’s no escape route. It's a cruel irony that I can't return home when my heart aches to be with you to bid goodbye. Recently, I've come to understand why God has allowed this journey to us.
Despite the trials and tribulations we've faced, your presence will always remain in my thoughts. I am deeply grateful that we've been blessed with wonderful children who have grown into responsible individuals. It saddens me that you haven't had the chance to meet our twin granddaughters. However, I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason.
Through this hardship, I've grown into a more mature, independent, and resilient woman. Thanks to you, Captain, for being my angel guiding me from above, and that will guide me to the right route of the wave going back home.
PS: I would love to send you this letter, though I don't have your new Postal code.. I've attempted to reach out, but, as the saying goes, there's no WiFi in heaven!!
Analee Lazarito's heartfelt letter sheds light on the harsh reality that many migrant domestic workers endure.
Analee's poignant words speak to the dreams and aspirations that she, like so many others, once held close. A life intertwined with her loved ones, marked by shared joys and shared burdens. However, the unpredictable twists of fate led her to a foreign land, where the promise of a better life was overshadowed by the grim reality of abuse and mistreatment.
Analee's heartfelt desire to be by her family's side during moments of celebration and sorrow is a poignant reminder of the human cost of this system.
The letter also unveils the paradoxical nature of escape. Fleeing an abusive employment situation only leads to a different kind of confinement within a system that provides no clear path home. The invisible chains of bureaucracy leave these individuals in a state of limbo, yearning for reunification with their families but trapped by circumstances beyond their control.
As Analee expresses her wish to send this letter to her loved one, the challenges of communication become glaringly apparent. The absence of a postal code, a simple detail that separates her from the ones she holds dear, is a poignant symbol of the barriers that exist for migrant domestic workers. The irony of having no "WiFi in heaven" adds a touch of dark humour to a situation that is anything but amusing.
In closing, Analee's letter serves as a powerful testament to the resilience of migrant domestic workers. Despite facing unimaginable hardships, they emerge stronger, more mature, and independent.
As a society, it is crucial that we recognize and address the systemic issues that perpetuate the struggles of these individuals, ensuring that their sacrifices are not in vain. Only through understanding and compassion can we hope to dismantle the invisible barriers that confine those who work tirelessly behind closed doors.