Learning to Manage My Time and Pay Attention Taught Me I Can Build Anything By Janice Benitez
Since I first shared my story, things have mostly stayed the same for me, and in a way, that steadiness has let me focus on what I have learned instead. As a domestic worker, this past year has taught me to be responsible, patient, hardworking, and trustworthy. I have learned how to manage my time, follow instructions, and pay attention to even the smallest details, skills that have quietly reshaped how I move through every day.
When things felt difficult, what helped me keep going was reminding myself that hard times are temporary, and that giving up would mean giving up on the future I am working toward. I found strength in the people I love, especially my family. The VODW community means a lot to me because it gives me a sense of belonging, support, and connection with other domestic workers who understand the challenges and experiences we go through. The people I have met have inspired me through their stories, kindness, strength, and determination. They reminded me that I am not alone and that my work and experiences have value.
What surprised me most about VODW was how supportive and welcoming the community is. I did not expect to meet so many people willing to listen, share their experiences, and help one another. Being part of VODW has helped me become more confident, open minded, and stronger as a person. I am most proud of how I have grown stronger and more dependable during my time as a domestic worker in the UK. I worked hard, remained responsible and reliable, and continued to give my best even when it was challenging.
To a domestic worker just starting out, I would tell them to be patient, hardworking, and always believe in themselves. The beginning may be difficult, but every challenge is an opportunity to learn and grow. Know your rights, respect yourself and the people you work for, and do not be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Keep good communication with your employer, and always do your work with honesty and dedication. Most importantly, remember that you are not alone.
For me, rest means having enough time to recover from work, take care of myself, and spend time with the people I love. Respect means being treated fairly, being listened to, and having my work and boundaries valued. At work, these things mean reasonable hours, proper breaks, clear communication, and a safe, respectful environment. My work in the UK has allowed me to support my family back home, and even though being away is difficult, I always make time to check on them and share what is happening in our lives.
This year, I am grateful for my family, my health, my work, and the people who have supported me through both good and difficult times.
For the holidays, I hope for peace, good health, happiness, and more meaningful moments with the people I love. I hope my family back home feels my love and knows that all my hard work is for them, the same hope that sits behind everything VODW fights for on behalf of domestic workers like me, from fair treatment to the right to settle and build a lasting life here.
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